On February 4, 2023, my two children and I arrived in Calgary to reunite with my husband and support him in his PhD program at the Schulich School of Engineering, University of Calgary. Little did I know the enormous challenge that awaited me.
A few weeks after our arrival, I went to the hospital for medical tests and examinations, and I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. At first, I felt devastated and overwhelmed. “How can my family and I cope?” was all I could think.
Despite this shocking diagnosis, I braced myself and started work as a full-time Direct Support Specialist (Residential) with a healthcare agency. However, I could only work for five weeks before taking sick leave to start active treatment. During those five weeks, I juggled work with countless medical appointments, tests, x-rays, and scans. As newcomers facing Calgary’s harsh winter and without a car, the stress was enormous. My spouse was also balancing his research, part-time work, family responsibilities, and attending my medical appointments.
My active treatment began with chemotherapy. I underwent 16 rounds, including three rounds of Doxorubicin, facing significant side effects—complete hair loss, severe nausea and vomiting, and extreme fatigue. It was a time when I felt completely lost.
During the early stages of my chemotherapy, I learned about CCIS. When my spouse and I visited the office, we were referred to Ms. Tayyeba, who supports newcomers with Temporary Resident Permits. Her guidance and encouragement were invaluable. While she had limitations due to our non-PR status, her support helped us navigate immediate challenges. I am deeply grateful to her and CCIS for providing such a welcoming platform. Throughout my journey, my husband and children were my unwavering support system. My oncologist and the African Cancer Support group also provided guidance and care, which helped me stay focused and hopeful. After completing chemotherapy, I continued with various medical tests while managing other health challenges, including high blood pressure. I underwent a double mastectomy, during which my husband had to take a leave of absence from his program to support me and our family.
Following surgery, I completed 16 rounds of radiation therapy, enduring side effects such as emotional trauma, skin changes, wounds, and pain.Amidst all these challenges, we achieved a major milestone—our Permanent Residency in Canada in April 2025. This achievement gave us an immense sense of security and hope for the future.
During this period, I also continued pursuing my PhD in Midwifery, which I had started before moving to Canada. I completed my coursework, continued my research, and successfully defended my thesis in August 2025. I also prepared for the NCLEX and passed in August 2025, becoming a licensed Registered Nurse in Alberta. Studying provided a form of therapeutic diversion, helping me focus and find purpose amid the treatment.
In addition to cancer treatment, I underwent a total laparoscopic hysterectomy and bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy in May 2025.
Looking back, my journey has been one of resilience, perseverance, and hope. With the support of my family, CCIS (through Ms. Tayyeba and Mr. Brook), healthcare professionals, and my own determination, I have emerged stronger and ready to contribute positively to Alberta’s health sector through my professional service as a Registered Nurse. To newcomers facing similar challenges, I want to say: despite the obstacles, it is possible to overcome, thrive, and achieve your goals in Canada.
